Such a powerful tool that is in each of us but probably the least explored. Most of us are brought up knowing the meaning and what it does. I believe that many even have used it countless of times, or so they think.
It is important to note that making a decision and following the flow are separate matters.
We are define by the decisions we make. Some might argue that following the flow does require making a decision but that is for a different time.
When someone is in a situation, it is their decision that determines what happens after, divine intervention aside. What we need to understand is that we have the ability to effect whatever circumstances we desire simply by making better decisions.
When we truly decide, we should be fully responsible for the outcome irregardless if it is positive or not. The power that it has is only dependent on the wielder.