More often than not we say things we don’t mean, or at least truly mean. And the same pretty much applies for what we say, write or think we want. Due to this incongruency of our internal desire with the external projection, we are often dissatisfied. The absence of true satisfaction usually results in an unhappy person. And there is not a lot of good to say about those kind of people. So whenever you think you want something, ask yourself, is that what you truly want or are you trying to please someone else by masking your true desires?