It might be to some that whenever kindness is shown to them, it is deemed as a weakness. That person has not got the strength to counter your actions or arguments. But therein lies a far greater strength. The ability to show mercy and kindness in the heat of an argument or misunderstanding. The strength to treat others well when your situation is not that great to begin with. Such an underestimated component of a human being that many disregard very easily and takes advantage of. Only when they realise it, will they then know the true strength of kindness and what kind of person is able to wield it.