Sometimes when it comes to certain matters, the decision making could be quite a tussle. What is worst, is when the ones you are tussling with is/are your loved one(s). And in times like this, where your future rests upon, you need to stand your ground. They might think that they have your best interest in their hearts but truly, only you can know what it is best for you. That said, you don’t have to be rude or aggressive to make them see you way. Be diplomatic. Make it seem as though it is the best thing for you and them. Find a way.