You can’t choose your face, eyes, mouth, height, or any other physical parts of your body. Those are simply genetics which you inherit from your parents. However, whatever they believe in does not need to be true for you. How their minds are shaped and perspectives on things are entirely theirs, if you so choose. If it agrees and benefits you, you can accept it. However, if it doesn’t, you have the right to choose what is right for you. That is something you clearly have the power over.