Whatever situation we are born into or in for that matter is admitedly most of the time beyond our control. That said, we have to always remember that whatever it is, we should not let it define us. Our decisions and choices henceforth matter. Do not blame our circumstances for being an obstacle to our success. Rather, it should be our pillar of strength to propel us to achieve it. Those who do not want to accept responsibility for their actions will find ways to make excuses for themselves and often time their circumstances will be their natural scapegoat. Do not be one of them.