We all have our own personal ideals that we live by and more often than not, we tend to put them onto the people that we love or encounter in our lives. But rarely do they ever meet them. There is no use really to be upset or disappointed in them because each human being is his or her own person. They have their own worries, happiness, stories and a whole lot more. Even twins have different lives. You need to remember that the only person that you can ever hope to change is yourself. The best thing you can do for others is to do you, be a great example of what you believe in and pray the best for them.