This might sound a little too fluff for some. But it really is true. Before anyone else, you need to have an unconditional, loving relationship with yourself first. Only then will you be able to have an honest loving relationship with others, if you so choose to have. Often times, people neglect themselves in the process of going through life, and in the end find themselves in a miserable state regardless if they are rich or poor. Taking care and having a loving relationship with yourself is not only strongly encouraged but also detrimental in being the most successful version of yourself. Some of the ways that you can do so are by treating yourself with patience, respect and honouring your gifts. Spend quality time with yourself. Flourish your mind and body with positives and flush out the negatives. Treat yourself, and do not be too hard on yourself. Be the best cheerleader to yourself and you will have a much higher chance of achieving your most successful self.