We should welcome suggestions. Especially well intentioned ones. That does not in any way mean that we must take them all up. It is very hard for someone else to know what you really like and want to do. Although there are a few that seem to handle that bit quite well, they probably cost way too much. It definitely is convenient to leave the thinking, planning and essentially the blaming to someone else but it is your life after all. You are going to be the one living through whatever decisions that was made. So yeah, it is definitely in your best interest to take whatever suggestions that you are given with a pinch of salt. After all, that squishy looking organ in your skull is not just there to fill up empty space.