If you are someone who likes to be in control, and that the absence of it gives you an uncomfortable feeling, that is more than enough of a reason for you to take a break from all that planning you like doing. When someone likes to be in control, he or she naturally likes to plan. And the thing about life, is that it has a lot of factors that are often times not present when you are doing up the plan but they sure do show themselves along the way so you might probably be better of not focusing too much on that plan of yours. Let it be your guiding compass instead of an ultimate destination that you have to reach. Be in the moment. Listen to the signs that you are getting from wherever it may be and have courage to follow that voice.