We go through life sometimes with and many times without a plan. We think that it should be a natural course, that we are meant to just strap ourselves on the seats and enjoy the ride. But the thing with life is that we have the power to shape our outcome. We might not have started well or even right for that matter, but as long as we are determined to achieve our goal and be willing to keep changing our approach if it doesn’t work, we should eventually succeed. Do not worry so much about the initial steps. Yes, we have been told that ‘first impression counts’ yada yada yada.. but they didn’t tell you that there is always another chance/opportunity. If there isn’t one, create one. Understand that very few got it right the first time round but managed to succeed in the end. Just be open to keep changing your approach when it is not working.